How to Harness Your Sexual Energy

Sex is the driving force that makes a man do anything. All great men of genius and power used their sex drive as fuel. The process of turning sexual energy and aggression into productivity is called:


And it is the most powerful tool in existence when it comes to creation, invention, accomplishment, creativity, advancement, and achievement.

Napoleon Hill talked about the Transmutation of Sexual Energy in his ground-breaking book Think and Grow Rich. In the book, Hill noted that all men of genius used their sexual energy as fuel for their creativity. He also noted that Love must be included in the sex relationship.

“Sex, alone, is a mighty urge to action, but it’s forces are like a cyclone-they are often uncontrollable. When the emotion of love begins to mix itself with the emotion of sex, the result is calmness of purpose, poise, accuracy of judgement, and balance.” – Napoleon Hill, Think and Grow Rich

In laymans terms, the love of a good woman is absolutely essential. You’ve heard the saying “Behind every great Man is a great Woman“. It’s true. With too much un-focused sexual energy a man has no purpose or direction. Civilization itself exists solely because of monogamous marriages and the directed focus of sexual energy. Take a look at your nearest ghetto for confirmation. You will notice that they (the underclass) indiscriminately have sex with each other, pop out babies at random while not in a nuclear, monogamous relationship, have no love between the sex partners, do not control their sexual urges, live like savages because their too focused on their sex obsession to do anything productive or creative, and have to be taken care of by Big Daddy Government otherwise they starve.

There is a famous quote attributed to an Indian Chief that goes like this:

“Indian Chief, “Two Eagles,” was asked by a white government official, “You have observed the white man for 90 years. You’ve seen his wars and his technological advances. You’ve seen his progress, and the damage he’s done.”

The Chief nodded in agreement.

The official continued, “Considering all these events, in your opinion, where did the white man go wrong?”

The Chief stared at the government official for over a minute and then calmly replied. “When white man find land, Indians running it. No taxes, No debt, Plenty buffalo, Plenty beaver, Clean Water; Women did all the work, Medicine man free. Indian man spend all day hunting and fishing; All night having sex.”

Then the chief leaned back and smiled. “Only white man dumb enough to think he can improve system like that.”

What we have here is a classic case of over-indulgence in sexual energy with no focus to harness that power into advancement. The American Indians lived in this land for thousands of years with no advancement. When the White Man came (with his sexual energy focused and directed) he found the Indian still living in Teepee’s, not wearing clothing, shitting in the forest, and living like savages.  A un-focused, sexually open society is a society that cannot survive the long term. If you disagree maybe you can ask an American Indian what he thinks about the assertation that sexual degeneracy will lead to extinction. What’s that, can’t find an American Indian to ask?

Every time you use an indoor toilet, get running water from your sink, cook your food on a stove, turn on the air conditioner on a hot day and get food out of your refrigerator you are enjoying the benefits of men who used their sexual energy in a productive way.

The decadent over-indulgence in sex is a one-way ticket to Failure village with a layover in Stagnation town . The smart men know this, the fools don’t and that’s why the lower classes behave like animals.


It is common understanding that over-indulgence in drink and drugs lead to ruin but it is uncommon for people to understand that over-indulgence in sex can lead to the same thing. Let that sexual energy build up inside you. Don’t dissipate that energy haphazardly because that energy is sensed by other people and draws them into you like a magnet. Being highly sexed (i.e. having sexual energy) but not giving in to any and all desires is the key to success.

“This orgy of indulgence may account for the shortage of great leaders. No man can avail himself of the forces of his creative imagination, while dissipating them.” – Napoleon Hill, Think and Grow Rich

There is one thing I can guarantee – the most successful men in history have a huge sexual magnetism BUT THEY DO NOT ROUTINELY GIVE IN TO THOSE DESIRES and they never make that desire the goal. They don’t go out on Friday nights looking for some action. They don’t have to, this kind of behavior will bring women to them without any additional effort.

Let me tell you about how I started making money. For years I used to dream and devise money making plans but they failed 100% of the time. I used to think to myself (before I ever read Think and Grow Rich) that guys like Bill Gates, in order for them to make fortunes, had to give up sex and the pursuit of sex in order to make money. I instinctively knew that but I would think to myself “that’s not worth it“. And because I was unwilling to give up that all consuming desire and redirect that energy I never did anything worthwhile. Not until I had a girlfriend that I lived with and I consciously focused ALL that sexual energy into money making energy that I started to make money on my own. At the time I had a full-time professional job. I had a business plan and desire and I quit my job. 30 days later I made twice my old job’s monthly salary with my new business. And I only did it because I focused my sexual energy into something highly productive. It worked and it’s the only thing that works.


Transmutation of sexual energy is the process of turning sexual energy and aggression into fuel for something bigger. Sex is the number one reason we, as men, do anything. It’s always for sex. It is our biology, our DNA. There is nothing wrong with that. But if we want to accomplish something grand, something great, we have to transform our sexual energy into fuel for something else.

  • Don’t indiscriminately have sex. That’s what savages do and that’s why they will stay savage. This doesn’t mean you can’t have sex but do not make sex your primary goal.
  • Don’t masturbate or watch internet porn frequently. This drains vital energy from you. You can see vast, positive changes in mood, personality and happiness by giving this up. Keeping your seed develops an animal magnetism that draws people to you, constantly spilling that seed repulses people.
  • Consciously use your sexual desire and energy and focus it into your business and life plan. Sexual energy is damn near limitless and when re-directed can turn any man into a money making machine.
  • Get a good woman who will take care of all your needs (not just sexual) – this will free your mind from having to even think about these things and you can focus completely on your goal at hand. The love and support of a woman is essential for success – most successful men had a good woman behind the scenes.

Sexual energy is the best fuel that exists – use it wisely. Save it up and watch your energy explode (heh).


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    • says

      Yes, this post is great. I just bought the book “Think and grow rich.” I noticed it has a lot of references in this website.

      I especially like this comment Victor makes: “Don’t masturbate or watch internet porn frequently. This drains vital energy from you. You can see vast, positive changes in mood, personality and happiness by giving this up. Keeping your seed develops an animal magnetism that draws people to you, constantly spilling that seed repulses people.”

      I think that is very true. Sometimes a man can get caught up in porn use and the mind can use it as a crutch. The mind can use pornography like a person would use a drug. If people need help with quitting porn please take a look at this website: soon to be

      Thanks for the post.

      • Gravy Trane says

        The truth is the people that run the earth are obsessed with sex and have weird and depraved sex rituals. Harness your sex energy and be careful who you have intercourse with but understand that books like Think and Grow Rich are little better than disinformation.

    • Farooq Naseer says

      Hi Cousin Vic

      Can I push you to answer in more detail on this one? I guess the perfect situation would be to have frequent sex but save your seed and only cum when you want and not involuntarily.

      Tell me is this state achievable in your opinion and if so, how?

      • Domonico says

        Listen, the ideal is simple. Get a wife and conserve your energy to one woman and not like this idiotic western society teahces to bonk anyone and everyone. Victor is bang on the money that saving your seed is the vital force of life. I mean the seed is powerful enough to give life, so just imagine how precious it really is. The moral of the story is SAVE yourself from this nonsense.

        • newgolddream says

          It’s totally true, the change can be remarkable when you learn this.

          And yes, Western society is a mess because of the number of weak men who have sex with any willing partner without long term emotional commitment. The tragedy of this is dis-functional families, ridden with drugs and alcohol where children grow up in the most awful circumstances ‘raised’ by parents unable to look after themselves let alone a family. This is the underclass referred to here, the racial background is inconsequential.

          My father (who died relatively young) raised 7 of us and never looked at another woman all his life. We’re all now successful hard working adults who take seriously our responsibility to care for the children we brought into the world. He understood this theory first espoused by Hill and had a very successful and happy marriage.

          The song, ‘The Things My Father Said’ by Black Stone Cherry, is a really inspirational song for me. I find it deep with meaning. The opening lines; ‘The things my father said would make me a better man, hard work and the love of friends, a woman that understands’ nails it for me. Every man needs ‘a woman who understands’ and reciprocates his total commitment to her, both emotionally and sexually. In return, what flows to her is his complete devotion to her and her children. Napoleon Hill knows this because he talks about love and sex together as being different sides of the same coin and that any woman who understands this, will have a loyal and committed husband.

          When a marriage falls apart, I think it is because this is not understood between the partners. The man is sexually active outside of the marriage through looking at porn, fantasising about other women and masturbating. , Even if she doesn’t have direct evidence of this, she senses things aren’t right. She then starts to nag and withdraw support and it’s a downward spiral from there. Like Victor said ‘constantly spilling that seed repulses people’ therefore imagine how repulsed and hurt a loving wife will be, because she will sense it more than anyone.

      • Baywatch says

        Im black. I grew up in the ghetto. Even though Ill never go back, Im proud of where I come from. And the shit that Vic is talkin about I been doing for years. I grew up on welfare and now Im an Engineer for one of the most respected firms in the country, because of sex transmutation. Everyone should go out and buy “Think and Grow Rich in a minute”, get the audio tapes if you’re too lazy to read or dont have time. It cuts out the fat of the book and gets straight to the point. I own my own business as well but the only reason I still work is because of the extra income, plus its easy to me and I love what I do, all because of sex transmutation. I tried to explain this to my friends and I was over their head. Needless to say theyre not my friends anymore. Stop fuckin with 5 for lifers, in other words, they’ll be making 5 digits a yr for the rest of their life. Vic can make all the white man references in the world and it doesn’t phase me 1 bit. All I take from this post is the message. Blacks gotta stop using racism as an excuse and start looking in the mirror. I work with racist people everyday, I smile, speak loud and clear and walk tall because Im the fucking man. I look them in the eye and communicate through vibrations. Here’s what I say: 1. Im smarter than you. 2. Ill fuck you up. 3. You will address me with respect. Trust me, they get the message, and Im well repected. What is understood does not have to be said. Some of these guys I’m now good friends with and they ask me for advice all the time. You have to learn how to be unstoppable, that goes for any man who faces racial barriers, regardless of skin color or culture. I didnt take offense to this post at all, keep up the good work Vic

        • Ciaran says

          Hey Baywatch,

          You clearly have mastered sex trasmutation. You seem like a real success. I’m a young entreprenure and I’d like to get seriously focused. I’d love to have a chat with you sometime about this – see if I can get a few pointers. My skype is celticciaran. If your up for passing on a piece of what you learnt then I’m up for learning.


        • Fortis says

          Hey Baywatch,

          I’m Black and I agree. I do dissagree somewhat with Victor’s mischaracterization of the Indian American, but I see his point. I hate how all the kids I grew up with in Newark have kids, but no direction or passion guiding their life. I just started working a 9-5 and Now i realize I’ve been duped, but it’s MY responsibility to pay off my student debt and turn my life around.

        • miguel says

          Wow. I was looking for a motivating story and you are it my friend. Im Mexican born here. I was familiar with the concept but now I really want to apply it.

        • WhatMoreCanISay says

          I’m a Black female and I found myself being offended by a particular passage, but then I thought, “this isn’t referring to me”. I decided to focus on the message instead as you mentioned. The truth is there are people living like this, and I’m repulsed by their behavior as well. I grew up in housing projects just like they did, but now I’m getting my Computer Science degree, and aiming to be a software developer. I’m a woman but I found this interesting. I’ll share this with men I sense are willing to learn. I’m also going to read the book you referenced.

        • Jessica says

          I’m a black woman and I must say,”Your absolutely right”. I’ve make some weird decisions in the past but this post is amazing.Yes a little racially driven but the truth is the truth and if it hurt than its struggle. I’ve had the “Think and grow rich” book and lessons book for years and I never understood what the term,”highly sexed” meant but going through my spiritual journey as a Christian woman it became so clear and this post confirmed all my beautiful beliefs. I’ve refrained from sex all toghether anyway because as a woman there’s growth, gentleness, feminism, beauty and success in restraints. His racial comments made me reflect and laugh because I understand about the ghetto examples he gave not just from black perceptive but Latins too!

        • Lexi says

          Smiling :) I am a black woman and if theshoe fits wear it! I know I will be channeling and transmuting my sexual energy as I already have the book and am well into its meat. I know I am different I accept that and will ultimately reach my goals because of my determination and assistance from transmutation of sexual energy. To each his own I love and respect everyone I meet leaving them no choice but to reciprocate.

    • B says

      :) we know who’s who lol. This guy tips but I’ve noticed quite a few white supremacist statements (you mad bro?) that’s why I’ll be damned if I buy a book from him. And to the Victor it’s not like you can’t find this type of advice else where on the Internet, so humble yourself. If you want to sell books about working out and how to work for yourself, great! Do that and leave out the white supremacy and religious garbage, you’ll sell to a broader audience without backlash or ridicule.

      • Sid says

        My friend B, the whole reason he has a solid readership base is BECAUSE of his lack of being politically correct. If you want PC go to ur TV bro.
        Fact CANNOT be ignored in an attempt to appease those in need of appeasment.
        FACT: Before Europeans arrived, America was not as developed as it later became because of white influence. It doesn’t matter what commonly held opinions regarding the crimes of the settlers were. FACT is a FACT.
        [I am a man from India, my country was also conquered by the white man at one time, but that does NOT mean I should turn my face from clear FACTS that they had better systems.]

        • Andrew D says

          If you are talking about progress in technology you would have to include our now much more efficient systems of life extermination -but is “that” truly progress? – which brings me to the main point of my argument: In terms of morality “white man” has moved to a level of primitivity that’s beyond “THE SAVAGE” stereotype that mainstream media has forcibly embedded us with, brainwashed us so that we do not sympathize or empathize with the misfortune of their violent past.

          • Andrew D says

            MISTAKE :
            “brainwashed us so that we do not sympathize or empathize with the misfortune of their violent past.”
            SHOULD READ:
            “brainwashed us so that we do not sympathize or empathize with the misfortune of their violent past.” (the victims’, that is, usually the indigenous native peoples who were living there peacefully before the invaders struck.

          • Grel says

            (the victims’, that is, usually the indigenous native peoples who were living there peacefully before the invaders struck.

            I think you might want to have a little look at history before you say ‘living there peaceully’. A lot of native cultures were some of the most brutal ones in existence. The Haida had a massive trading and slave empire across a large part of North America. Tribute was paid to them by tribes up and down the west coast. There were tribes whose coming of age rights were to ingest toxic plants until all memory of being a child was wiped from their minds and they became perfect warriors. It’s also becoming more well known that the ancestors of the current Inuit people were a warrior people who travelled from where Russia is today in search of iron to make weapons. They arrived and completely and utterly annhilated the people who were there originally and left pretty much no trace. The natives from Mexico and the southern US down to the tip of South America had an empire larger than most countries that exist today.

            Natives that lived here before colonization were anything but peaceful and their culture was just as brutal as any colonial cultures. They had slaves, they went to war and they had empires. They just didn’t rely on agriculture and a sedentary lifestyle, they didn’t have much need to. But in the places they did, they definitely didn’t shit in the bushes.

          • Rob says

            “In terms of morality “white man” has moved to a level of primitivity that’s beyond “THE SAVAGE” ”

            Complete bullshit.

            Instead of focusing on the negative, educate yourself on what the white man has done for this world. Philosophy, science and technology, inventions etc. etc.

            Whites these days are generally the most sympathetic, non-racist people on the planet.

        • Gino says

          Don’t be so hypersensitive to racism either. It’s not racist to point out that whites did this that or the other good things, it would be racism to conclude that they were able to do these things or naturally compelled by their race to do those things which is absurd, their “whiteness” had nothing to do with their accomplishments, they just happened to be white and they happened to accomplish a lot and be very productive, but it could have just as easily been black people, or asian people, or any other race of people. The race is irrelevant to what they did but what they did is relevant to their race since their race is part of who they were giving the narrative framework of a who doing what where for what purpose and how; all of which are necessary for robust historical knowledge.

          • Rob says

            “The race is irrelevant to what they did”

            This is false, unfortunately.

            Despite what egalitarians would have you believe, there are differences between the races besides skin colour.

            East Asians have the highest average IQs, and are the most neotenous/least physically explosive. They are smart bu they aren’t great athletes.

            Blacks have the lowest IQs and are the least neotenous/most physically explosive. This is why they excel at sports like basketball and sprinting.

            Whites are somewhere in the middle.

            Also, it has been said that although whites have slightly lower average IQs than East Asians, they have more geniuses due to how IQ is distributed throughout the white population.

      • sam says

        This is just a reply to the people screaming ‘racism’ at this article. Yes, it does sound ‘racist’ or ‘white supremacist’ in a sense, but sadly that’s the truth….And the truth must be said, so let the butthurt flow! ;)
        As far as ‘white supremacy’ is concerned, I’d say white people rock at a lot of things; inventing shit, building countries, following the law, charity,….and if some whiny liberal hates the truth, let them go cry about it!
        As long as nobody is getting hurt and nothing illegal is being done, WHO CARES!?

      • robert reynolds says

        super white supremacy statements. Too much religious zealot shit too. I like the redirecting the sexual energy idea but screw you and your racist, classicism shit.

      • Nobuko says

        I have to agree with this. I’m a woman of Asian and African ancestry and do not have sex indiscriminately. This has made me, too, a woman, highly successful in my field. I came here to refresh and to perhaps find some new pointers, as I am constantly self-improving.

        The author makes valid points about how the underclass engages in sex disrespectfully and indiscriminately, and that yes, this contributes enormously to its economic destruction. Where in my opinion this author goes awry is when he makes the RACE of these underclasses their central failing, when Napoleon Hill never said any such thing and few men of greatness do. Underclass is a state of mind and a failing in thinking – not how much melanin is found in cutaneous material in the thinker’s body. He also fails to mention the races he dislikes had thriving, high-technology societies while Europe languished in one of her two dark ages. What were whites in Europe doing to cause these dark ages: having sex rampantly and indiscriminately? Hmm :)

        No, and neither were Mayans, Aztecs, Incans or Egyptians and other Africans. All were doing fine and actually better than Europe, as was China and most of Asia. That is…

        Until Europeans arrived and looted their resources and murdered them to take their gold, their women and their land.

        I’d advise the author to look deep within to root out his prejudice against non-white persons, because prejudice is an inner failing that will leech away success as surely as will loose sex. It is this failing that in fact is wrecking the present and future of the white race and,if it remains unchecked here in the 21st century, will prevent it from reaching the 22nd. All thoughts create vibrations which create energy. The white man in America is self-destructing because he and his woman refuse to look within, admit that together they are afraid to accept that generally whites externalize and reject the sides of Europeanness they hate and project these onto “the other”, which is always darker-skinned – and work to stop doing so.

        You cannot build your own house when you are obsessively envious of, frightened by, and scornful of your neighbor’s.

        Whites need to focus back upon themselves and also return stolen resources to darker races from whom they robbed them. What is stolen is like a curse upon a man: it will cry out like the blood of Abel and leech success in progressively more spectacular ways and numbers until it is returned, with an apology, and with interest. This is a kind and friendly warning from a woman who is half Asian and left New York University with a 4.1 GPA – a thing white students rarely accomplish but my people always do. HEED. AN ASIAN’S. WARNING.

        Leave black people alone and stop coveting from the Latins. Focus upon achievement. In fact, emulate the Asians. We are too busy studying and achieving to obsess over “the darkies, the blacks, those thugs” and all else your kind likes to call them. And we notice how whites do that and consider you lazy for it. It’s the mental version of picking up a joint.

        When the white race learns to unlearn racism and focus all of that wasted energy instead upon achievement, then perhaps you will outdo us Asians and become “Superior”.

        Until then your racial envy has made you weak, dissolute and unfocused and is exactly the same level of waste of energies as is the indiscriminate sex you accuse “lower races” of engaging in and YOU AND THEY ARE EXACTLY THE SAME.

        And we Asians will continue to crush you. :)

        Again, friendly warning. Heed it.

        Minus its wasteful racism, almost a pretty good article.

        Nobuko in Los Angeles

        • TS says

          It’s easier to reveal racism online because of the nature of anonymity. It takes real balls to show that to real face to face situation. Most of the time, it’s never ending cycle. I been there before (both receiving end and giving part) and you don’t want to go there man on either side. It’s like being stuck in the quick sand.

          Racism is a complex topic. In my opinion, it’s pointless to talk about racism this and racism that because most people don’t give a shit to be honest.

          Gain Power. Instead of complaining about racism and injustice… if you don’t want to see that then gain power. Nothing else matters. Power first. Powerful body AND powerful mind. Be smart, strong, and successful.

          I’d say focus on what REALLY matters… Focus on self-improvement. Focus on gaining physical strength by working out, lifting heavy weights, and reading many good books, learning how to program, learning business… Mind and Body.

          When you look at the positive side and improve yourself in every way possible, you will start attracting successful and positive people. Move on. Move forward. Learn from successful people.

        • Matias Page says

          This is one of the most racist comments I’ve ever read. The only difference is that you put white people at the bottom of all races. And that is considered fine and politically correct in today’s mainstream culture. Just like they do with men as a gender.

          “Friendly warning… And we Asians will continue to crush you.” — Anonymous Nobuko, Nobel Prize Laureate, 2014.

    • Thomas Allred says

      That idiot who said the white man is the only savage is obviously too stupid to know the definition of the word lol.

  1. Ugly Foot says

    Thats a good read, brah! I’ve been whackin’ it for too long! 1-5 times a day for the last 10-15 years. I’m at 0 today and i’m going for the gold! I’ve thought about this for awhile and wondered if it would change me into the person I want to be. I’m always tired and no drive to even wash and detail my car. Id rather watch porn and.. ya know. Today is the first day that I will be improving myself. “They” say nothing is wrong with whackin’ too much. But I’ve read a lot on both sides of the fence for the physical and mental side of it and I’m giving it up as long as I can to see if I notice any difference. I think it’ll help in the bedroom too, hopefully. I need to last longer and more drive! BOOOOOYAKA

  2. says

    I agree with most of this… except the idea that “civilization exists solely because of monogamy”.

    There’s a decent case to be made that monogamy is not our natural state, and nor is it the bedrock of civilization. I don’t know if you’re religious, but a large reason why monogamy is so widespread is the collective belief in religions like Christianity. I personally believe that marriage is an institution that we created, and that it’s not the most effective way to run relationships.

    If you’re interested in learning more, check out a book called Sex At Dawn (link: It’s a helluva good read and presents an alternative perspective to yours.

    • Victor Pride says


      That book sounds like hippie baloney where the authors try and challenge the accepted norm or the patriarchy or they want to provide a “total paradigm shift” to our traditional way of thinking. Fart. Hippies will stop at nothing to destroy civilization, and that means destroying marriage and christianity.

      • says

        Haha… well, if you’re gonna be like that…

        I’ve been enjoying your posts, but you’d be wrong to discount a new idea just because it doesn’t jibe with your current mindset. You’re all about being a man, so why not read it and make your own mind up, rather than reacting from an emotional (ie. feminine) point?

        • Victor Pride says

          nah. You’re a copy guy, if you have some reco’s for great copywriting books I will take those seriously.

        • says

          Not sure where your comment about copywriting books went. Info here:

          Anyway, if you discount new ideas as fast as the one I suggested, you’re not the dude I thought you were. Nothing wrong with that. I grew up in a highly religious family, would have ended up as a pastor if I stayed in the scene, but I bailed, and to this day, I see it as one of the best things I’ve done. That’s just what worked for me. One of the biggest catalysts for positive change in my own life has been books that present ideas that I don’t necessarily agree with. Trust me. This shit expands your mind, even if you remain unconvinced after reading.

          • J.M. says

            John the ideas of the book are not new, it´s just the fact that nowhere have been effective to build something beyond grasshuts. The main problem is that females are born roughly at the same number as males and beyond that there are chemical realities of pair bonding that. Our civilization wouldn´t count as an example of a successfull non-monogamous society because we are basically living on borrowed time due to the accomplishments of our great-grandfathers but even today stagnation is becoming a problem

      • chris says

        It is hippy bullshit.

        The guy who wrote it is a mendacious idiot.

        Everything in his book that is true isn’t new and everything in his book that is new isn’t true. No one in the field of evolutionary science has taken his ideas seriously.

        Here are some critiques of the book.

        And here is an entire book that was written pointing out Sex at Dawn’s numerous fallacies and outright lies.

        But all you really need to know about this book is that it is popular amongst the liberal-effete-antimasculine-procuckoldry crowd and that in itself discredits it (as this whole website is a testament to the discrediting of that crowd’s ideology).

  3. Ninja says

    Being born In south america, I was told many stories from history teachers about the tribes that lived in this part of the globe, they agree to tell that native soldiers were strong but leaders’s overindulgence on sex was a factor to be considered (being worried more about pleasure than their responsilities= ; meanwhile, the Spanish were physically and mentally stronger. it is said that Hernan Cortez and Pizarro did a lot of exercise, climbing, fencing and others duties day by day. It happened in China too, the emperors of certain dynasties just wasted themselves having too much sex and wasting their seed, leaving them with tired brains to take important decisions.

  4. Timberly says

    I really enjoyed reading this article, however do the same rules apply for women? I apologize if someone has asked that before, I just didn’t have time to read through every comment and I am genuinely interested.

      • Katie says

        Sexist pig. Some woman is going to fuck you up one day. Expecting a ‘good [ie.obedient] woman’ is the pathway to a marriage based on control where you will never truly see your partner as an equal. You’re missing out on so much, ‘cos you’re too wrapped up in your own selfish thoughts.
        And yes, as a matter of fact a woman can transmute her sexual energy, what’s the fucking difference?!

    • Dallas107 says

      Yes, women can in fact harness their sexual energy. I read “Think and Grow Rich” a few years ago, and that was my favorite chapter. It’s difficult and requires discipline, but it works.
      It’s funny that the author believes it doesn’t work for women. How would HE know?

      • says

        Of course women can harness their sexual energy! It happens all the time. Take a look at and listen to the music of female artists and female entertainers.

        Such as Lady Gaga, Katy Perry, Gwen Stefani, Taylor Swift, Rihanna, Nicki Minaj, Kesha, Cher, Britney Spears, Christina Aguilera, so on.

        A lot of their music, videos and performances are sublimated eroticism, plain and simple. And you’d have to be pretty insensitive not to feel it and sense it.

    • Golden Goddess says

      It won’t last. Some men are blessed with naturally abundant sex drives, however, they start hitting the wall at 40 when they are sluts and losing their focus and creativity and withering away. Look at rock stars and celebrities in Hollywood for instance where this lifestyle is common, most peak and then it’s over. They can’t keep cranking out the hits, I think the same goes for women who have children (sorry sisters, but I’ve seen so many female artists lose their fire and focus after they pop out a rugrat, the writing just isn’t as focused or intense anymore) having children also does something to a woman’s energy field that she has to repair. Some people are expert at sucking the sexual energy out of their partners like vampires, these are the people who manage to keep some sort of vitality being permiscuous – but the pendulum always swings the other way. It’s something to keep in mind. What you do will always catch up with you.

      Also, energy work helps a lot as well and healing your energy blockages. I recommend looking into Tai Chi and Qigong as well.

      Females cultivate their sexual energy as well, just in a slightly different way. The author isn’t a woman so he has no clue, sorry dude, but you just don’t.

      Monogamy is actually sexually superior for creating stability and lasting societies, however, it’s been twisted into a form of control so much by religion and other social constructs that people reject it and throw the baby out with the bathwater. There is nothing stronger or more powerful than love between a man and a woman in a monogamous, spiritual, connected relationship.

      Our sexuality has been one of the most twisted and controlled aspects of our natures by industries with insidious agendas. Hardly anyone knows what the right use of sexual energy is anymore and would rather give it to commercial images ad fantasies that are incapable of loving them.

      • TheGreyWolf says

        There is a natural order to things.

        What we see today are the results of perversions of that natural order on many different levels.

        Thank you for your comment.

    • Domonico says

      That maybe the case but the aura, charisma and lustre on the face of who observes celibacy is a million miles away compared to these low lifes who just sleep around or sorry to be politically correct ‘get laid’

  5. Logan says

    I came in here eager to learn, and half way reading this. I closemindly exited because I felt you were talking about becoming abstaint, but as I exited out and stopped myself, I realized I just exited oyt because yoy said something I disagreed with , and I thought, how close minded pf me to closemindedly leavr because of what yoy said, and I decided I would go and finish reading it.

    as I finished purusing yoyr article, you gave me a thougjt that made me feel hope, i felt hope because I thought “hey, maybe if I decided to get a mentality of ‘if I dont do this, i wont get laid’ ” like baiting myself to work harder. If my mindset works, ill come back later to report my success.

    Many thanks, Logan

  6. says

    Hey Victor,
    Thanks for the great posts, you are a fatherly influence to many of us young men out there! I recently found out about this site, and I have been catching up with every single one since the start of the blog and I have a question for you regarding marriage/picking the right wife/harnessing sexual energy for a young man.

    I am 20 years old virgin and still in a school for engineering but am working on some entrepreneurial projects. I never really talked to girls but I think that I should start sometime soon and shift my focus from just work. The only sexual gratification I get is from masturbation (going to stop, but should I replace it with real sex?)

    According to your blog post on picking the right wife, you mention that at age 30 you begin to think about getting married. You also mention in multiple blog posts at from 20-30 are the wild years, but you suggested not going for one night stands/empty sex. You also mention about harnessing your sexual energy but how having frequent sex allows you to have increased testosterone. What would be your advice to a young male at around age 20? Should we go out and try and attract women to be girlfriends knowing that we will not eventually marry them? Or should we just focus on our projects for work/school and spend time later on attracting women? It seems like it requires a bit of time, effort and focus that could otherwise be used for more productive thing. If my concern is worthy, do you think you could elaborate on your post on harnessing your sexual energy and the balance with maintaining high testosterone? And balance between work and attracting women (talking, dates, etc.) Thanks again for all the knowledge so far, your posts on getting things done enabled to kick ass lately, this is just stuck in my head and eating me away mentally.

      • says

        Thanks Victor it was quite winded. When you get a chance, in short my question is for a young 20 year old guy, in terms of interacting with women would you suggest:
        a) Focus on projects/work and worry about women later in life (how should I harness sexual energy without masturbation/ losing T then?)
        b) Go out and try and seek a girlfriend who is possibly wife material in the future and harness sexual energy that way
        c) Enjoy my “wild years” and get with lots of women for a little bit then settle down like many guys do (obviously not the Spartan and bold&determined thing to do)
        d) Something else?

        Thanks again for having such a kickass site!

        • KG says

          I think you just came him ‘food for thought’ for another upcoming kick-ass post! No matter how long it takes… would be worth it.

        • redx1 says

          I am thinking along these lines as well. Im in my late 20’s. I worked on my idea all day, had a killer workout, ate well. Its 8 pm now, I barely watch tv or movies and I dont have any friends, and porn doesnt cut it. I haven’t been laid in 2 years and have a high sex drive. The frustration drives me insane, should I not be going out to the bar? What am I supposed to do with myself?

          • Victor Pride says

            No man, sex is necessary as far as I’m concerned but the sex obsession will kill your business goals. Kick ass during the day and then slay some ass at night, 2 years is too long.

    • Andres says

      Did you end up getting a response for this question? Exact same situation incl girls engineerig etc,except 19 years

    • Domonico says

      Short answer is NO. Focus on your projects, work or whatever else….if you are desprate for a girlfriend then make sure it’s for the long term and not just for instant gratification.

  7. Phil says

    And so i too have quit masturbation 3 weeks ago and yes i am more attractive to women and the feelings between me and the women are more of love and warmth than perverted desires as previous with watchin porn and wanking. Early days and so far so good.

  8. Bob says

    Your posts are GREAT and very helpful … but im curious .. Do you hate Blacks?! or am I just taking some of your comments the wrong way

      • G says

        Yeah I just thought since you are living in china (I think) and wrote a post about such a topic may be you have heard about qigong it’s simply set of breathing exercises that supposed to increase your chi/ longevity so on.. I have heard about it a while ago practiced for a bit then stopped although you do feel diffrent afterwards now most of the people think that it’s GAIAM bs designed for women so that their nearly dead ceo husbands won’t pay a treasure for them(they have to pay for yoga pants though!?!) anyway said long enough I know it’s not really your style but may be you can check it and return w/ some feedback since you re a blogger

        • Justin says

          Anything that makes you feel calm and peaceful is going to extend your lifespan. We have several traditional ways to achieve that, actually.

          Fishing, reading, watching a fire, building something.

          I know someone that’s had a couple heart attacks recently, I think he had to have a vlve replacement surgery. He’s building a two foot model galleon now to extend his lifespan.

          This year I discovered gardening… It might not sound manly, but it hits all the right instincts.

          • Niko says

            When I was younger I used to stay up at nights and just sit on the floor with my eyes closed and focus on my breathing, after a few punishing sets of iron lifting (this was back in the days before I even set a foot in the gym for the first time). Hearing my heart thud in the silence and slowly set its pace to normal was a great thing to meditate to.

  9. Marc says

    Awesome article. I’ve read the book and listened to the tapes over and over. I never asked anyone about their thoughts on this chapter…just talked to my wife about it and how I think this particular subject is brilliant. Here I am again working on improving it and I find this article – pretty much right on the spot what I was thinking. Good work. Doesn’t matter if I agree with certain viewpoints, I appreciate the opinion and it’s edge. Found 99% of it hilarious actually. Cheers

  10. Jim says

    I don’t normally comment on blogs at all but thanks for the insightful read! Your post is a long awaited revelatory confirmation of what I have suspected for a long time.
    Whenever starting a new project I would often work in isolation. Some days I would be preparing to work and decide to get off beforehand (no pun intended). Right afterward I found my creative/mental focus and motivation had waned for some unknown reason.

    Again, thanks for opening my eyes.

  11. says

    Your conclusion is like the secret to manhood that I wish someone had told me when I was ten. I learned my lesson the hard way, losing 14 years to masturbation and porn. When I quit masturbating eight years ago, I was a spineless scrawny loser with nothing to look forward to. Now I am well above average in strength, fitness, intelligence, and morality. I have clear, incredibly ambitious goals and know I can achieve them.

  12. Caressa says

    Well, you said speak your mind so here goes : ) I am a 30 year old black female that listens to Think and Grow Rich every other day, even if just one chapter. I am very highly sexed, but I am working on starting my first business and it is a struggle to get my mind out the gutter and focus. Your article is great. Yet, I sense a lot of animosity towards all races except white. What you say about the Indians is correct. However, they lived like this happily for thousands of years as you said. Many European civilizations only lasted a few hundred years. Even here in the U.S., white power has lasted for around 400 years but whites are slowly becoming the minority and that reign will end. What goes around does in fact come back around. The Indians did not need or want the white man’s “advancements”. Whites’ idea of advancing them was nearly wiping them off the face of the earth and pushing them off of their own land. Happiness means different things for different people. Your post has so many good points but it has subtle racist undertones that are not appreciated. If you were for the advancement of all humanity, you would not make such condescending remarks. That desire to be superior to all others so that one can feel better about him or herself… having someone to look down on… is what has caused the fall of great empires. With all that said, I am striving to be wealthy and successful because I’m surrounded by a lot of wealthy people where I live, and I read a lot of books that have convinced me that life is about advancement, not being complacent.

  13. Strength says

    I agree with some things about this article,but I think it failed to address how a people or society can also go wrong by being sexless and non sensual.Objectivity is essential in true understanding.

  14. Zen says

    I agree very much with this post, except for the critical view of the native americans. They lived a healthier and more balanced lifestyle. We are only fooling ourselves that more is in fact better. The problem with more is, whatever is increased also brings with it more problems and responsibility. It would have been far greater to have a cooperative and coordinated spirit with them.

      • xavier says

        Finally a man with his head screwed on right. It always makes my blood burn when I hear people Call Whites savages for taking America. Back then that is how people did things. It did not matter if you were a mongol, a Persian, or a European. The name of the game was exploration, innovation, and territorial expansion. Everyone in the “old world was doing this”, but the Europeans did it better.North Eastern Asians and Europeans have always been a cut above, yet I’m not sure if it is in their blood or the lifestyle they lived.

        I don’t need to read that book you recommended to Zen as i’m already educated on the subject, but an awful lot of people think that native americans were all smiling brown faces living off of the land and would not hurt a fly. you should really be thanking Europeans for enlightening you rather than making up stories of Europeans holding you down from making your African Space Program.

  15. says

    To Victor and all the guys wondering about whether you should abstain from sex all together etc.

    I recently read a book “The Mutli-Orgasmic Man,” which is based on the ancient Taoist principles of “Sexual Kung Fu.” All the points in this post on the fact that spilling your seed too much drains you of vital energy are spot on. The main goal of “Sexual Kung Fu” is to reach orgasm without ejacualtion.

    Essentially you can have as much sex as you want while enjoying orgasms, but instead of releasing and losing your sexual energy (ejacualting), you draw it up into your body increasing health, energy, and well being & making it available to be used towards any endevor. This is much more powerful than just building the energy by abstaining from sex,

    I am only beginning this practice but I think it coincides greatly with the main point of this article. With many added benefits. It’s something to think about. Taoist masters of this art are said to be able to do incredible things with this energy and reach higher levels of consciousness. I can only imagine what it could do for motivated entrepreneurs.

    • Sigma says

      Interesting book. I’ll look into it. I have Think and Grow Rich. It’s the business. Another book I’ve found valuable is The Way of the Superior Man. It’s a book about understanding women, masculine/femine energies/polarities and how these are meant to be channeled, and sexual yoga like you mentioned. Major revolution in my understanding of women came from this book. Changed my life, and feminazis fucking hate it. Tells you it’s on target IMO.

      Victor, I love your work. Thank you brother. I’ve been listening to Misfits and Motorhead lately since finding Bold and Determined. It just makes sense.

      Semper Fidelis

  16. MIGUEL says





    I AM LOVING IT!!!!

  17. David says

    Awesome post Victor, and Happy New Year

    As a Black Man this is right on the money. It’s easily seen in poorer societies all over the world, people get bent outta shape about the examples used, still true. If feelings are hurt, so what? It is a condition that lives where Poor Mind lives. Poor Mind don’t give a fuck what color you are, it grinds all to dust who do not resist and conquer it.

    Notice how all over the world no matter how poor a culture, country, society is; there’s always a guy having sex. It is a base craving that will always be satisfied by someone in despair, that man will find a willing woman, that woman will find a man. When you can harness what is going on on the ground floor [foundation] you can build a skyscraper.

    People ask, how can that woman get with that deadbeat? Simple.

    People without inner direction conform with the outer direction. It’s a Law.

    While he is dirt poor, no destination for his life, all his dreams come to ruin, a head full of nothing– he fathers 3+ kids, multiple partners. When this is combined with a culture that encourages instant success, event over process, and “one day I’ll make it” thinking, disaster lies in wait. Because if that event occurs, and that man with no inner direction finds himself rich, he simply repeats his process that got him where he’s at a better standard of living.

    Millionaire, 7+ girlfriends and 9 kids. Some guys got it that bad, it’s a result of what is lacking inside. He has more income to live in luxury, but still is the same degenerate inside.

    I’ve had major problems with introversion, social awkwardness and wasting of Sexual Energy. Masturbation.

    I’ve learned that as a man there is nothing more important than the respecting of Sexual Energy. I’ve observed how a lot of apologies are made for masturbation and I’ve found that they are Grade A Bullshit. Why?

    Masturbation (particularly as it relates to Porn) is the act of excluding yourself from nature, piece by piece. Generally you only masturbate to dimepieces, blonde bombshells, whatever you fancy. You are praising the object of your pleasure as UNOBTAINABLE, the only way you can get close to her or anything like her is an digital representation.

    You are saying to your subconscious “I’ll never attain you, so I’ll settle. I’ll imagine I’m that guy pounding it, or I’ll mentally undress her. I want to SKIP all the social process / mating ritual–dance and get right to business”

    Piece by piece you leave the ranks of the Alpha [one who decides his destiny] and join the ranks of the Observer [one who watches from the sidelines].

    We are supposed to look at what we want and cultivate an inner fire to achieve it [or it’s likeness]. It is a 2 step process. It makes me sick to read Youtube Comments about some 458 Italia or Aventador and younger kids aged 17-24 are talking about how they will NEVER afford a car like that, or accuse the owner of drug dealing, lying, scamming, and cheating his way to owning that Lamborghini.

    The man with a crippled worldview imagines everyone a cripple.


    Another problem that I’ve noticed about Masturbation from my own experience is that it is a cheap anxiety hack, or escape. Somebody made you angry, a deadline is coming close–feeling the pressure, want to take your mind off things? Masturbate. Problem solved?

    No. This is called an addiction.

    Thank You Victor, glad I found this post.

    • Jerry says

      I love what you said about porn and the subconscious. That seems to be so true. It also takes a toll on your self esteem because you don’t exactly feel like a winner when resorting to porn rather than the real thing. lol.

    • TheGreyWolf says

      “When this is combined with a culture that encourages instant success, event over process, and “one day I’ll make it” thinking, disaster lies in wait.”

      Event over process…


      Those three words, in that order, describe one of the fundamental problems with our society today, as well as the last 35 years of my life.

      Many are more concerned with the next 5 minutes than the next 5 years.

      I have been told I am too old to do what I want to do.

      My only goal is to do more and be better today than yesterday, and plan tonight how I will be better tomorrow and do more than today.

      I call it the 1% effect.

      If I start at zero, and increase my performance by 1% a day, I will double my performance about every 3 months.

      Or as you said indirectly:

      Process over event.

    • John says

      Truer words have not been written throughout this entire forum, including the original post! Thank you for the profundity of proverbs. David, you are a very wise man, in deed.

  18. Jamilah says

    I like the advice on sexual transmutation as I am a huge fan of Napoleon Hill. In the same book, or it might be in his Principles of Success books, I’m not entirely sure, Hill speaks of seeing the world solely from your own viewpoint as a mistake. I think he uses the example of a young asian man that comes to college in the States and when he is asked about his impression, he mentions how strange the slant of the white mans’ eyes are. Hill then mentions “and what do we say about asians?” I say this to say, simply because we are used to certain practices does not make them better.

  19. says

    Im 1 week without having sex and i feel great just got my first erge to jerk it but it went away. If you stop jacking off it really makes a difference.

  20. baka says

    you are an idiot. a racist scum of an idiot. IF the idians would have been left to having sex all day we wouldnt have two atomic bombings, a global nuclear arms race, constant cold war fueled conflicts, the colonization of most of africa and the aftermath that only grows worse, war after war some how connected to the same countries who have “harnessed their sexual energy”. Not the mention protection of the Ozone, the undeniable global warming effect caused by this rage to progress more then you can sustain, the threat of instinction to most other sizeable species, and global poverty while the few with :harnessed sexual energy” ate half the worlds food …

    • Victor Pride says

      The undeniable global warming effect? Is that what is making the earth so cold? You morons aren’t even smart enough to polish my shoes.

  21. says

    Hey, I am a 20 year old male that listens to Think and Grow Rich every other day, even if just one chapter. I am very highly sexed, but I am working on starting my first business and it is a struggle to get my mind out the gutter and focus. Your article is great. Yet, I sense a lot of animosity towards all races except white. What you say about the Indians is correct. However, they lived like this happily for thousands of years as you said. Many European civilizations only lasted a few hundred years. Even here in the U.S., white power has lasted for around 400 years but whites are slowly becoming the minority and that reign will end. What goes around does in fact come back around. The Indians did not need or want the white man’s “advancements”. Whites’ idea of advancing them was nearly wiping them off the face of the earth and pushing them off of their own land. Happiness means different things for different people. Your post has so many good points but it has subtle racist undertones that are not appreciated. If you were for the advancement of all humanity, you would not make such condescending remarks. That desire to be superior to all others so that one can feel better about him or herself… having someone to look down on… is what has caused the fall of great empires. With all that said, I am striving to be wealthy and successful because I’m surrounded by a lot of wealthy people where I live, and I read a lot of books that have convinced me that life is about advancement, not being complacent. Vic, you’re seriously messed up in the head for thinking the way you do about certain races. If i get the opportunity to download your book, i swear i will advertise a free version and upload it to torrent sites. Only because of the way you subliminally through in your white supremacist ideas. Vic, until you learn to leave out the white supremacy and religious garbage, I will continue to give out your work for free :) I probably won’t be back to this shitty webpage, but I’m sending this from a VPN/peer blocker, just in case ;)

    • Rick says

      Yeh…the Indians lived for 12,000+ years sustainably on the land. We are managing to destroy it in around 200. Real advanced. We’re so advanced that there are hundreds of cancer hospitals popping up all over the country. You never heard anything about natives having cancer and heart disease. Advanced…huh.

      • Jerry says

        You sound stupid, just saying. You think everybody(6 billion people) should sit around shitting in forests and living in Teepees? It was inevitable that advancement in technologies would come. And we are better off now then we were back then because of it. Fun fact. Lung and heart disease comes from the choices you make. A “race” of people don’t get lung and heart disease, only individuals. I don’t hear about other ethnicities from the past(including whites) getting lung and heart disease either shit for brains, you know why? Because nobody diagnosed that. It’s because of technology that we are diagnosing these things.

  22. Robert says

    I’m 22.. You are absolutely right, masturbation is cheap. It’s easy to give in to it, and to let the sexual energy flow and build up inside you, rewards you. I know, I’ve held my seed in plenty of times, and from experience, it’s made a positive and meaningful difference in my life. But the only thing that kept the slipping happening, was I subconsciously believed I’ll never fully give up releasing. But I found that by listening to subliminal messages, especially for sexual energy, my subconscious beliefs are changing for the better, and for this reason, I can use that to increase healing, strength, fitness, intelligence, wealth, cognition, and so forth. Good stuff and thank you.

  23. g says

    i actually can restrain from masturbation for 25 days
    after that i feel very tense and cant concentrate and always thinking of sex

    i dont work at the moment so i cant attract girls
    its very sad the whole situation

    i dont work cos there are no interesting jobs
    we live in a stupid malicious covered up pussocracy

  24. Jerry says

    Well, I don’t have a good woman(as of yet.) But I haven’t jerked it in over a month and I feel great. It’s weird because it seems my sex drive has gone down but my overall happiness went up. Now, that can seem like a bad thing, but I used to be obsessed with having sex so it was kind of an addiction that was taking over my life. I have also noticed everybody at work is responding to me much better than when I would jerk it on a daily basis(lol.) People that wouldn’t talk to me are now coming up to me and chatting as if I am their best friend. It’s great. I also have more confidence(I suppose when you are single, not getting laid, and resorting to jerking it to porn you feel like a big loser. It really takes a toll on your self esteem.) But at least now I feel less perverted. I have also started working out like a madman and I have noticed without jerking it it’s easier to stick to the routine. Maybe it’s the extra energy…I don’t know. But I plan on sticking too it. I said to myself, I won’t jerk it again until I start having sex again. If that means never…then so be it. But I would rather reap the benefits of not doing it, than become obsessed with it again. I think overall it helps you have a clear focused mind, which I believe is the key to success.

    • Jerry says

      Oh, and when I say it seems my sex drive has gone down, at first for the first couple weeks it was through the roof, but then it kind of went away. I suppose i could probably still “get it up” if I wanted too, but I have still looked at porn from time to time I am not going to lie and it really wasn’t doing anything for me. Maybe it’s the fact that I don’t have the intention of having an orgasm like I used too. You take away the reward(orgasm) and you eliminate the pleasure of seeing it and it’s easy to refrain from it. I can go weeks easily now without looking at porn. But if you watch porn with the intention of jerking it(even if EVENTUALLY,) then you become addicted.

  25. Max says

    In Think And Grow Rich Napoleon Hill states that you can redirect sexual energy to color your voice and make it musical and charming. How exactly do I use my sexual energy to do this?

  26. Josh B says

    Yes, this is why Genghis Khan was the most genetically successful male in human history…ooh, owait…the greatest conqueror of all time was a actually a phenomenal rapist who got off all the time. <.<' That's why so many Hollywood celebs, Wall Street traders, and politicians are sex addicts…It is a proven fact that over masturbation lowers testosterone levels, but normal sex actually raises it. For every successful male you can name who didn't have a lot of sex, you can name another who did have a lot of sex with many different partners. Muhammad Ali-John F Kennedy. Winston Churchill-Jimi Hendrix. It has more to do with education and diet than anything else, as well as perhaps your genetic blueprint for sexual robustness.

  27. says

    I think you have a lot of great posts on being a man, and I understand you don’t want to “give a fuck about being politically correct”, but generalizations of “underclass”, Native Americans, monogamy, and the “superiority of the white man” really takes away from the credibility of your post and your blog. I still stuck it out to find your other posts, but this one is my least favorite. That story- the Native American is all zen and the “white man” is all ego…we all know that tirade.

    You heard the story of the “Mexican fisherman and the American businessman”, right?

    Either way, a “hippie” you might like is “The Way of the Superior Man” by David Deida.

  28. Yusef says

    While I agree with alot of your views on transmutation just through the evidence of my own experiences, you seem to have a warped perspective on other cultures, misinforemed and almost seems xenophobic in nature.

  29. Asish says

    yes true and i also discovered this by years of masturbating and i am take your advice into action because its really true..

  30. Atman says

    Indeed the correct context of controlling ones impulsiveness is stated in this article. It is insightful and I can appreciate that at least, despite any offense distributed and/or taken of any, that full expression of what one contemplates is abroad in raw manner.

    So, the following, could be an example of means and the processes (As described by Guru Pramahansa Yogananda) of controlling the sexual energy:

    Paramahansa Yogananda in his book God Talks With Arjuna: The Bhagavad Gita states:

    At the command of the yogi in deep meditation, this creative force turns inward and flows back to its source in the thousand-petaled lotus, revealing the resplendent inner world of the divine forces and consciousness of the soul and Spirit. Yoga refers to this power flowing from the coccyx to Spirit as the awakened kundalini.


    The yogi reverses the searchlights of intelligence, mind and life force inward through a secret astral passage, the coiled way of the kundalini in the coccygeal plexus, and upward through the sacral, the lumbar, and the higher dorsal, cervical, and medullary plexuses, and the spiritual eye at the point between the eyebrows, to reveal finally the soul’s presence in the highest center (sahasrara) in the brain.”

    Now this is simply a Vedic interpretation of the ‘Creative Force’ (i.e. Sexual Energy) starting from the Root Chakra (Near the Genitalia) to the Sahaswara Chakra (The point between the eye brows, Third Eye, Pineal Gland, center intelligence, Brain, whatever you may understand it by)

    This ‘Creative Force’ can develop a sense of sharpened awareness and action taken that further would supplement the Author of this articles reasoning for utilizing sexual energy for innovation and expansion.

    Nikola Tesla, Einstein, J. Robert Oppenheimer, Laureate Niels Bohr, Schrodinger, just to name a few innovators: All acknowledged the extensive knowledge of the Vedas and the clarity provided that helped them with their own personal insights.

    Bohr states “I go to the Upanishads to ask questions.”

    When I read the Bhagavad-Gita and reflect about how God created this universe everything else seems so superfluous.” ~ Albert Einstein

    “The Bhagavad-Gita has a profound influence on the spirit of mankind by its devotion to God which is manifested by actions.” ~ Dr. Albert Schweizer

    And more just as examples.

    As one may ask: “Which head are you thinking with?”

  31. Jawad Sabra (@JawadSabra) says

    THis post is great, apart from what you said about the Ghetto and the American Indians, i find that a bit harsh, it may be true, but you could have put it in a more civilized and considerate way…

    • says

      Welcome to the non-PC world, my friend. The world is ugly and rosy-colored lenses keep people from receiving the wake-up slap that they typically need. Ask yourself, would this post have resonated so deeply if Vic fluffed it all up?

  32. Bruce says

    I’ve tried this for a week, no jerking off, no porn, and the results are awesome! Girls are looking at me twice, and I had an experience with a woman that i meant before, didn’t even want to tell me here name first time, and now she wants me, I’m like this is great! Now want I’m asking for is how to maintain this, I mean do I have to have a girlfriend to fill my sexual needs, because I’m loving the attention from other woman, already, and my drive is a little different, it’s not when I need to, it’s when I want to now, but I’m just asking for, what’s the are the requirements to maintain this energy on a regular bases

  33. Max says

    I’m native american/american indian whatever you people you like to call us nowadays. I am Iroquois, and we kicked ass in the northeast for centuries way before the white guys came here. We lived in longhouses, not teepees.

    But, yeah, we (the Iroquois) fought among each other for centuries as well. Then we smartened up and united. We were still growing by the time the Europeans came through. And actually, we kind of had slaves, meaning that all the people we took from other tribes, we impressed them into our nations and made them live on the outside to protect the heart of our nation.(I’m mostly tuscarora, and we’re the only nation that didn’t get impressed/adopted into other nations.)

    However, we were not dirty. (Fought dirty according to European standards maybe.) But, that was our downfall, that and being too nice. We were too clean and the germs of the dirty white guy killed us. Too nice to the poor white guy. We lived the way of certain animals(think remora and sharks): we help you, you help us. We(all natives) expected that from multiple generations and we thought wrong.

    With our dwindling numbers(from disease and guns), we still killed many white guys. But you guys kept pouring on and we couldn’t handle that much. Other natives used the whites as tools to get what they want, although they had no intention of keeping they’re promises. They used us as well.

    We didn’t have the technology. I’m not sure what we would’ve came up with, but it would’ve taken a while for the technology to improve but we were resourceful and were geniuses. Our leaders knew people(unfortunately not whites) and got what they wanted. We were far ahead in the politic/economic/social game, knew war strategy and could adapt(another animal trait) unlike the europeans who knew one war strategy and were killed for their stupidity. Until they realized, they’re getting killed and don’t know how to adapt, so they asked our enemies.

    We even had a place for garbage and a place to shit, even if it was in the woods. Far better than having streets full(or smell) of garbage, piss and shit.

    But, I agree with you, Victor, if you mean today but not in the past. Because if you mean today, you’re spot on(excluding shitting in the woods and living in teepees). My generation is doing drugs and having babies all the time. Only a select few can have kids at a young age, and still be successful, but they’re in monogamous relationships and are religious(longhouse). The majority are just wasting their lives and I know far too many that did just that.

    However, the older adults and a few people from my generation are trying to turn it around by trying to revitalize our language and culture.

    But if you mean the past, you’re wrong(at least about the haudenosaunee). The Iroquois were monogamous and probably used sexual energy to do as they pleased. Although the women had the most power in the government, they knew their limits and what they could and could not do(they raised the children, did the gardening and gathered the berries/nuts, and cooked). It was a system that worked and a system that could’ve made the Iroquois an empire in the northeast and not just new york/ontario.

  34. Fauxall says

    The article was too much simple. Then it diverted into thoughts of supremacy, without real substance. Finally it ended up in personalized brainwashed opinions of propaganda and self righteousness. I know more than enough white men and women that are liberal to promiscuous. From whitehouse affairs to what is called monarch programming. Open your eyes pride, or better sleep in your world.

    • Victor Pride says

      “or better sleep in your world.”

      If you struggle this much with the language you have no part in my world.

  35. Nihanth says

    You were talking about Indians, do you know Indian sages has very wide concept of continence, tens of thousands of years they have mastered this technique, and has teached to the world. Yoga is born in India, and there has been no details when yoga was originated, India is a spiritual teacher, we Indians have only become slaves not due to the creative power, of English people but we are not in unity at that time, this gave Britishers a chance, we work very hard even in the hard sun and our potential were burned by White man. they steal our treasures, we were the most richest county in the whole world, we had diamonds, selling out like peanuts in the market place, white man jealousy of our nations wealth lead to our decline, this is not any spiritual power, put we can say the power of jealousy, which may be accompanied by sexual power but in the wrong direction. We see whiteman has many technological advancements but no inner peace, that is the reason he often visits Asian countries, for such peace to prevail, they come to India learn yoga and various techniques and practice of continence is the thought which will not pop up in their minds except some rare persons who have think hard about this problem. They are slaves to their senses. we contain sages who never lost one drop of semen in their life times, that is even impossible for people to imagine, we are the world teachers, but every civilization has its own bad features, that breaks the bone of it. This is very good article , sexual power is the vital chi power which makes man equal to god, as said in the vedas and scripts. You can do many astonishing things, where ordinary persons have to suffocate to earn even peace of bread to their family. I love continence.

  36. chagbert says

    Hi Vic – and all you people who commented on this article. I came across Hill’s “Think and Grow Rich” book sometime in 2012 but was only “able” to read it (3 times) this year, 2014 – after I lost my job (Dec 2013) where I had been working for 6.5 years running up and down like a headless chicken. It is really a great book and complements the “Science of getting Rich” book by Wallace D. Wattles. I am grateful to you Vic for expanding on this sex transmutation topic – you have put it in context to what we experience these days. I love your blog and wonder why I had not seen it earlier: “Picking the Right Wife” is also another great article I enjoy reading and has helped me come across the best woman in my life (and we are just preparing for marriage – and I will marry her according to our Swaziland traditions [she has agreed while most so-called ladies out there would not hear the likes of it] and I have sworn to dedicate my sexual ethos only to her). Thank you so much!!!

  37. justin dickens says

    Hey Vic.. I read a bunch your blogs on abstaining from jacking or wasteing seed. I’ll be honest. I use to chekout hot porn alot and jack 5 to 6 times every day. I always wished I had the size and stamina of alotta the men in the flicks. Anyway..I have changed my lifestyle to a healthy one and workout hard alot and often. also stopped jacking and put my desires into my work. As a result my health has mega improved and my erections have gotton Rock Hard. with losing weight even look longer. Holding my seed has given me mega drive to productivity. Tho I’m always wet/hard. Ha ha! My only problem is mega wild wet dreamin. Thus I lose my seed? Great thing tho is when I do and wake up. Its like floodcity/messy. I blast off like 12 good ropes+. Hada take to wearin tighty whiteys again. Ha ha! Yeah TMI. Lol! But gotta thankyou for the advice/results. From trying what you have said. Only question. How to stave off losing my drive/fluid when sleepin? Any ideas how to stave my subconcious lusts for coitus? Thanks bro!

    • says

      Here’s my take;

      Your body will auto-regulate your emissions when you stop jacking off. Basically you’ll keep building up your sexual energy and eventually the excess will be discarded.

      You can see your sexual energy levels as a bucket. If it’s depleted (from too much sex/jacking off) you won’t have the drive left to put into more meaningful work like working out, blogging, reading, … . But when it’s overflowing the excess will simply be discharged trough wet dreams.

      It won’t harm your energy levels imo. – That’s what I’ve noticed at least.

      Hope that helps

  38. bear says

    Totally un PC, blunt and to the point, but spot on! Some of the saddest specimens of men that I know of , never said NO when it came to their sexual vices. I look at them as human signposts reminding me to be vigilant and focused.

  39. Ukrop says

    This is so damn true. I’ve experienced this by myself but I didn’t know what it was until now. Thanks, man! I noticed that just when I lose my motivation I almost right away want to “compensate” that (not even knowing why) with whatching porn and stuff. That sexual energy that was supposed to help me achieve something becomes unneeded and just wasted but still it needs to go out. So, I guess those who use it wisely will get not just sex but also money.

  40. Zach says

    I think the chief had it right, sounds like a good life. What are all the goals and technological advances for anyway?

  41. says

    You’re so cool! I don’t think I’ve read anything like this before.
    So great to find somebody with a few unique thoughts on this issue.

    Really.. many thanks for starting this up. This web site is something that is required on the web,
    someone with some originality!

  42. Joe says

    I think you’re wrong. We don’t live for sex. We have an energy and we can direct it towards sex. Evolution is the truest and most practical belief but it isn’t the absolute truth. There are millions of single and powerful people who don’t live with others.

    The idea that we need another person to help us achieve is also false. The most powerful people in the world are single and childless.

    • Victor Pride says

      “The most powerful people in the world are single and childless.”

      A simple look at facts proves otherwise.

  43. Arvy says

    Hi Victor,

    thanks for the article.

    The message in the article is good. The article and its value degenerated in the comments when it became a discussion of racism and sexism. (Did the posters post when the sex drive wasn’t optimal? :D)

    People from all races have the same sex drive and control, and the same creative instinct — it could have temporarily varied in degree.historically and geographically. Women also have the same sex drive, control and creative power. A man’s drive depends on the attraction of the feminine aspect of nature, and hence, without a woman’s sensual love, a man is impotent. A woman wouldn’t love a man who treats her as an inferior and as merely a means for making him rich.

  44. says

    I’m back on the train to using my sexual energy productively. I have had bursts of abstinence and in those periods of time, I got WAY more done and my life turned into something purely amazing. Unfortunately, I would always go back to my old “savage” ways.

    This is also why I am starting to doubt communities or people that think that chasing tail is the ultimate end goal. This will just make your life pretty much worthless and after a few years you’ll look back and you won’t even remember 80% of all your random adventures.

    I went too far with having too much sex and then I went too far with trying to be asexual. It is time to find that magic middle ground – where I am still a sexual being yet my sexual power is harnessed and controlled.

    Interesting how blind the general public is to the idea of sexual energy.

  45. TruthL says

    Master sex transmune and direct it towards God and to healing and fixing this world. Then you truly possess everthing. Success isnt money.

  46. Garrett says

    I 100% agree with this post.

    Also, along this path (and with what you spoke of in regards to a wonderful & supportive woman), I’d recommend reading the book “Cupid’s Poisoned Arrow” and learning about (and applying) Karezza. I think it will be very eye opening for you, and fit in perfectly with what you’ve been doing here.

  47. James says

    the only minor flaw i see in this as a human being is.. Transmutation of sexual energy for financial sucess is the wrong motive. The main point of sexual energy is to transmute and channel it into spiritual energy. Thats why monks and priests abstain from sex even though most don’t even know why anymore. To channel this desire into a diciplined and balanced life should be the motive. And financial stability and happiness will come naturally.

  48. LttP says

    Speaking as a woman, I would be pretty annoyed if my man was “saving his seed” and not pleasuring me frequently. In fact, I would argue the opposite point. If you don’t deal with your sexual urges, they hijack your brain and then you can’t concentrate on anything anyway. Well, that’s what happens to me – lol!!

    But perhaps there is a point that some sexual energy can be diverted to other tasks, although I’m not sure I understood exactly HOW you would do that.

  49. Mike says

    Hi ,

    You have mentioned that “Get a good woman who will take care of all your needs (not just sexual) “.
    My question is that if we are getting married to a good woman and having sex tough occasionally yet that also results in waste of sexual energy then why should we “Get a woman” . Rather we can also conserve that sex energy while maintaining celibacy .