From the desk of Victor Pride
Subj: How to live your real life
So you're 21 years old…
Does it seem like nothing makes any sense?
It seems like everything you're told at 21 years old is the opposite of what you see with your eyes.
Your eyes say one thing and your parents and relatives say another.
You hear them talk about what you should and shouldn't do but they don't really have a clue.
The words they say just don't match the reality you see with your eyeballs.
It even seems like their advice is not meant to help you excel, it seems like their advice is meant to help you fail.
It's not that their advice is bad-hearted, it's just that it's… wrong.
And where does that leave you?
Stuck, lost, confused, maybe even depressed.
If that's you, just what the heck do you do?
I'm so glad you asked…
21 THINGS EVERY 21 YEAR OLD SHOULD DO
1) Do not listen to normal people's advice
The average man today is a give-up artist – fat, dumb, broke and addicted to porn – the opposite of a true role model. Woe be to the young man who listens to conventional advice. If you listen to them you will become them.
Normal people who give up have nothing valuable to teach. The only truly qualified teachers are the abnormal people who follow one vision right until the end. People like your kindly Uncle Victor.
“I wish I had a father like you. I never knew mine.” –Marc, B&D Commenter
2) Quit university
Studying in university is the worst thing you can do to your life. Study is theory, it is not practice. The more practical theory you have, the less true intelligence you have. Intelligence is gathered in one way only – through personal experience. School is a way to put off personal experience longer and longer.
The classroom is not life and the professors are mostly people who have never lived life. Many professors are pathologically unable to see or say the truth, which is why so many American professors are still communists. I have lived in communist countries and I can tell you from first-hand experience – communism ruins countries and the people who live in communist countries go through life like ghosts. Dipshit professors should know that but they don't.
- University = Book-nerds teaching you books written by book-nerds
- Bold & Determined = Reality transmitted directly to you
Learning is not the same thing as studying! Learning comes from personal experience. Study comes from the word of others (and you learn nothing). Seek to learn, do not seek to remember silly facts because it's real-world USELESS!
3) Do not get a job
After receiving a university education you are not equipped to think any longer, you are equipped only to follow orders at some job that you will hate your entire life. Do you want to be happy? To be happy, you have to make your work, not “get a job.” Jobs are for college educated slaves and you already know that. Higher education is a rat race that leads to a job that leads to nowhere. There is a better solution…
4) Travel the world to get a real education
For most of my life I was a fool. I listened to others, even though I didn't believe them, because I didn't know any other option. It wasn't until I got on a plane to China that I developed intelligence.
How did I develop intelligence? Travel is my only teacher. It is only through travel that I learned anything about anything.
If you want to know anything about life, you MUST see life in a 3rd world. Not only must you see it, you must live it, you must speak to the people who are stuck in the 3rd world, you must understand how great you have it.
You know what I learned traveling the world? I learned that people in the first world are pathologically unable to see reality while people who live in the 3rd world are very sensitive to reality. To get the truth of the world, you have to ask a poor person in the 3rd world.
They'll tell you the absolute truth of the world in no uncertain terms – you must make a lot of money. Money is god and only a damn fool believes otherwise! Experience life and you will learn this obvious truth.
5) Seek experience, not reward
The number one thing my young interns lack is the concept of patience. You've got to learn before you can earn. Learning cannot be skipped. Rewards are for men who did the work.
Seek no reward other than a life well lived. Paradoxically, this is how you are rewarded.
Forget about money NOW, concentrate on money in the future. Do this and the future it will rain money on you (as long as you do your rain dance right now).
6) Make your own opportunities
You know that you have no right to expect to make money without first doing intensive and intelligent preparation. EXPECT NOTHING TO BE GIVEN TO YOU!
Expect nothing and you will not be disappointed because it is a guarantee: nothing will be given to you. If you want it, you must take it. Weak men wait for opportunities. Strong men make them.
Nihil sine labore = Nothing without work
You make your own opportunities and you do not whine and complain about a “lack of opportunity” because there is no such thing as a lack of opportunity, only a lack of balls and a lack of willingness to take opportunity.
We always need reminders of success. B&D Vol. 1 is your reminder to be a big success! Even if you don't read the book, simply seeing the cover and seeing the words will remind you to become success.
KEEP ONLY 1-2 BOOKS WITH YOU! Having many books is useless, they will serve only to confuse you. You keep only 1 or 2 books with you to serve as reminders only. Reading books all the time will rob you of creativity, so keep it simple to stay creative.
To be a true original you must learn for yourself – you must experience for yourself. This is the only way you will ever be “creative”.
Creativity is nothing more than seeing the world through your own eyes rather than through anyone else's eyes. This is why you keep only a copy of B&D because B&D is not about me, it never was. It is about YOU!
8) Don't waste your life jerking off
Sun Ssu-mo says, “If a man squanders his semen, he will die soon. For a man, this is the most important point to remember about sex.”
We've all been sold that jacking off is great and healthy but do yourself a favor, go jack off and then go look in the mirror. Do you look vibrant and healthy or do you look sickly and weak? We both know the answer.
Masturbation is the true #1 killer of confidence and capability. The negative effects of masturbation are both mental and physical.
- Physical effects of jacking off: “This vital fluid of man carried back and diffused through his system makes him manly, strong, brave and heroic. If wasted, it leaves him effeminate, weak and physically debilitated.”
- Mental effects of jacking off: “In masturbation there is nothing but loss. There is no reciprocity. There is merely the spending away of a certain force, and no return. The body remains, in a sense, a corpse, after the act of self-abuse. There is no change, only deadening.”
What's the solution? If you want motivation, don't jack off, it's that simple. At 21 you should be throwing a fuck into every young slut you run across, not into your hand. Just don't get seriously involved with one of them (especially if her cooter smells like rotten fish, it means she has a sexually transmitted disease).
Young ladies today are quick to fuck, but that's because the roles have been reversed and they have more testosterone than young boys do. Not good for long term. Remember, you can't turn a ho into a housewife and it's a mistake to try.
Follow 30 Days of Discipline and you will see what life is like when you aren't wasting your life constantly jerking off (i.e. what life is like when you are busting with MOTIVATION).
9a) Break your phone addiction
21 year olds are addicted to their phones like dope-heads are addicted to dope. These young guns today think their phone is an “extension of them.” It isn't. When you're on your phone you are in other people's worlds, never your own.
On the phone you can never be on the moment, you can never be totally absorbed in your own world. Instead, you become totally absorbed in another's world. You already know that phones kill relationships. In the same way they kill relationships, they also kill your creativity.
Not only does staring at your phone non-stop make you look like a jerk, your phone does very nasty things to your body! Staring at your phone kills your posture.
9b) Go to a coffee shop without a phone
This is the new Starbucks challenge: go to a coffee shop once per week… alone. Here's the challenge – leave the laptop and phone at home.
Do this to be alone with and confront your thoughts like a man. Don't hide from nothing, especially not your own thoughts. Be a man and confront yourself without a crutch. Be old school – bring a notebook and a pen with you.
10) Keep your phone on airplane mode
Your phone must be kept on airplane mode because of an invisible thing in the air called electro-magnetic radiation. Electro-magnetic radiation is how your phone is able to be used without wires or chords. Electro-magnetic radiation is how your phone works “wireless”.
But wireless does not equal “painless” and much of the depression, joint pain, inner agitation people feel today is due to electro-magnetic radiation aka electro-magnetic hell in your cell.
Keep your gadgets on airplane mode when not using them because it is in your very best interest to do so.
“But Victor, what if Becky calls? I'll miss the call!!”
Let that little slut wait. Keep your phone on airplane and never keep your laptop on your lap! It fries your boys and kills your testosterone levels.
11) Check your testosterone levels
Every 21 year old living today has low testosterone (in the opinion of my eyes and of science). Testosterone is what makes a man and if you don't have it, you don't become the man you should be. You stay the boy you shouldn't be. All 21 year olds need to go and get their testosterone levels checked!
Why do you have low testosterone if you're still young, dumb and full of cum? It is not your fault! We live in a poison environment and the massive amount of pollution we ingest is the culprit.
Are you less of a man if you have low testosterone? Yes you are less of a man if you have low testosterone, but remember 2 things: (1) it's not your fault and (2) it can be fixed if you take a proactive stance.
You do not want to live your life as a frumpy, low-T “dude” when you could just as easily live like a man. The first step is to get and get your testosterone checked and verify 100% what your testosterone levels are.
After that, you can increase testosterone and strength with Red Growth. Take 3 tabs per day for 3 weeks, then take 3 weeks off. Continue 3 weeks on, 3 weeks off forever.
American B&D readers can check their testosterone (without a Doctor's approval) at MyLabFax.
12) KILL ESTROGEN!
The importance of maintaining optimal hormone levels and overall hormonal balance cannot be stressed enough. Once you get your testosterone and estrogen levels to optimized levels the difference in your quality of life can be night and day.
By increasing natural testosterone levels in the body, you can boost your sex drive, increase your bone mass, improve your fat distribution, and help you develop more muscle mass and strength.
13) Throw away the clock
People always complain about time, time, time. They say “there's not enough time!” but they make one big mistake – they waste their time staring at the clock.
If you do nothing but watch the clock count down of course there are not enough hours in the day. On the other hand, when you never look at the clock the hours in a day are long.
“It is the idle man, not the great worker, who is always complaining that he has no time.” -Orison Swett Marden
Is time any different if you look at the clock or not? No. What is different is your pre-occupation. If you're pre-occupied with time you cannot be pre-occupied with your work but! if you're pre-occupied with your work you do not feel the stress of time.
Worry about time or worry about work, one or the other. I say, be in the moment because there is nowhere else to be.
14) Sign up to the B&D email list
It is important to be on the Bold and Determined email list because that is the only way that we at B&D communicate when a new post is ready. Some people use social media, but everybody on earth uses email. That is why it is important to sign up to the B&D email list – when a new post is ready, you will be notified first through email. Sign up here (it's free).
Your voice must be earned, just because you are given a voice does not mean you have to speak everything you think. Telling everybody everything you think is stupid. You will NEVER LEARN if you don't stop talking.
When someone is speaking do not wait for your turn to talk. Instead, listen to what they say. Don't ask questions! Just listen and learn. People will tell you all of their success secrets if you just listen. How do con artists fool people? They listen. How do you get fooled? You talk too much!
Be sure to listen to poor people. I have learned more from speaking to poor people than I have learned from all of my high school and university teachers combined. No one wants to listen to the poor and that is a stupid mistake, the poor are the only ones who live in complete reality. When you talk to them you'll learn one important thing: successful people don't live in reality, successful people live in their own delusion.
16) Start a private diary, log everything
Log everything that you learn in your private diary. Instead of opening your mouth and vomiting your information to anyone who will listen (no one will listen to a 21 year old), log it in your personal private diary. You will want to view this in years to come. You will never be able to remember all of the lessons you've learned, all of the experiences you've had, all of the revelations you've come to unless you write them down.
Writing your lessons (and goals) down also acts as a “brain cleaner.” See, your brain only has so much space, it can only remember so much information. To remember new information it has to clean out old information. If that old information wasn't written down it could be lost forever. Do your future self a favor and write everything down – you will want to compare how far you've come from where you started.
Your private blog could eventually make you a million dollars as it did for me BUT! you need experience first. Gain the experience, log the experience, then when you truly have a unique voice you can turn your voice into your business.
Until then, log everything and keep moving forward. Start your blog with Badnet because we don't charge you anything and we give you so much extra.
17) Go to bed when it's dark and wake up when it's dark
Sleep is for old people! Wake up because sleep is pussy shit (develop the discipline of a soldier). Over and over I have learned this valuable lesson: the more you sleep, the less energy you have. The less you sleep, the more energy you have. Sleeping more is not “healthy”, it's a way to escape life. Let those other dipshits escape life, you wake up and you live it to the fullest.
You cannot live life to the fullest if you are asleep. Sleep when you're dead, right now you must wake up and get to work because life will pass you by if you don't. Always work up an appetite before breakfast! Morning is no time to be lazy and your breakfast doesn't taste good unless you earn it.
A lean body is a clean mind. A fat body is a muddy mind. If you ain't strong, you are wrong. If you ain't lean, you ain't mean. Solution? Stay lean, stay mean. Do mobility work every single day. Your body is a temple and you must treat it as such.
You must take care of your body now so that in later years you will still be fit. Remember, if you ain't fit, you ain't shit. You feel significantly better if you just take the time to do the things you need to do, like stretching, breathing, and mobility training.
19) Drive a motorbike through the Hai Van Pass in Vietnam
Go there, drive the pass, remember the pass, take no photographs, then, later, put the feeling down into words. The feeling you had at the Hai Van Pass, write it down in your private diary. NO PICTURES! Use your memory to paint the picture with words.
20) When people say bad things about you, prove to the world that those people are liars
Throughout your life people will talk bad about you. There are 3 ways you could respond:
- Explain to them why they're wrong
- Say bad things about them
- Say nothing, work hard, use them as fuel, prove them wrong, laugh all the way to the bank (hahahaha)
Explaining to people why they're wrong is a waste of time. Arguing with people is a waste of time. There is only one true way to take revenge on the people who talk about you…
YOU WILL ACHIEVE MASSIVE SUCCESS!
Talkers are the people who will never find success. Because they know they will never find success, they either believe that no one else can either or they want to make sure you don't find success. Either way, they must be ignored and only used as fuel for your fire.
New World Ronin is a young man's book. To old men it reads like gibberish, to young men of the 21st century it is the Holy grail, the new true Bible of success and freedom. The Holy Bible's teachings are hidden under a mask of allegory. New World Ronin is the opposite, it's teachings are hidden in plain sight, under the veil of complete truth.
If there's one thing I've learned in this world, it's this: older people in the west hate the truth. They aren't bad people, but the world they grew up in is different than your world and they wouldn't recognize the truth of this world if it bit them on the face.
Only the few and true can succeed wildly. Their time is over and your time is beginning. You are not the future, you are the right now.
And right now you must follow the way of the ronin if you want success. There is no other way. There are no jobs for you, no one will give you a damn thing, you must create your future and the blueprint is New World Ronin.
But remember, blueprints are black and white, you must crack the code and fill in the color yourself.
Don't bitch about it, be about it. Then just go and do it.
Always stay young, always stay dumb and always stay full of cum.
Until next time.
PS – Don ‘t forget to start your private blog with Badnet right now. In a few years you will be very glad you started today. You will look back and you will be amazed. You will say, look where I was then and look where I am now. WOW!