Sex is the driving force that makes a man do anything. All great men of genius and power used their sex drive as fuel. The process of turning sexual energy and aggression into productivity is called:
TRANSMUTATION OF SEXUAL ENERGY
And it is the most powerful tool in existence when it comes to creation, invention, accomplishment, creativity, advancement, and achievement.
Napoleon Hill talked about the Transmutation of Sexual Energy in his ground-breaking book Think and Grow Rich
“Sex, alone, is a mighty urge to action, but it’s forces are like a cyclone-they are often uncontrollable. When the emotion of love begins to mix itself with the emotion of sex, the result is calmness of purpose, poise, accuracy of judgement, and balance.” – Napoleon Hill, Think and Grow Rich
In laymans terms, the love of a good woman is absolutely essential. You’ve heard the saying “Behind every great Man is a great Woman“. It’s true. With too much un-focused sexual energy a man has no purpose or direction. Civilization itself exists solely because of monogamous marriages and the directed focus of sexual energy. Take a look at your nearest ghetto for confirmation. You will notice that they (the underclass) indiscriminately have sex with each other, pop out babies at random while not in a nuclear, monogamous relationship, have no love between the sex partners, do not control their sexual urges, live like savages because their too focused on their sex obsession to do anything productive or creative, and have to be taken care of by Big Daddy Government otherwise they starve.
There is a famous quote attributed to an Indian Chief that goes like this:
“Indian Chief, “Two Eagles,” was asked by a white government official, “You have observed the white man for 90 years. You’ve seen his wars and his technological advances. You’ve seen his progress, and the damage he’s done.”
The Chief nodded in agreement.
The official continued, “Considering all these events, in your opinion, where did the white man go wrong?”
The Chief stared at the government official for over a minute and then calmly replied. “When white man find land, Indians running it. No taxes, No debt, Plenty buffalo, Plenty beaver, Clean Water; Women did all the work, Medicine man free. Indian man spend all day hunting and fishing; All night having sex.”
Then the chief leaned back and smiled. “Only white man dumb enough to think he can improve system like that.”
What we have here is a classic case of over-indulgence in sexual energy with no focus to harness that power into advancement. The American Indians lived in this land for thousands of years with no advancement. When the White Man came (with his sexual energy focused and directed) he found the Indian still living in Teepee’s, not wearing clothing, shitting in the forest, and living like savages. A un-focused, sexually open society is a society that cannot survive the long term. If you disagree maybe you can ask an American Indian what he thinks about the assertation that sexual degeneracy will lead to extinction. What’s that, can’t find an American Indian to ask?
Every time you use an indoor toilet, get running water from your sink, cook your food on a stove, turn on the air conditioner on a hot day and get food out of your refrigerator you are enjoying the benefits of men who used their sexual energy in a productive way.
The decadent over-indulgence in sex is a one-way ticket to Failure village with a layover in Stagnation town . The smart men know this, the fools don’t and that’s why the lower classes behave like animals.
HOW TO HARNESS YOUR SEXUAL ENERGY
It is common understanding that over-indulgence in drink and drugs lead to ruin but it is uncommon for people to understand that over-indulgence in sex can lead to the same thing. Let that sexual energy build up inside you. Don’t dissipate that energy haphazardly because that energy is sensed by other people and draws them into you like a magnet. Being highly sexed (i.e. having sexual energy) but not giving in to any and all desires is the key to success.
“This orgy of indulgence may account for the shortage of great leaders. No man can avail himself of the forces of his creative imagination, while dissipating them.” – Napoleon Hill, Think and Grow Rich
There is one thing I can guarantee – the most successful men in history have a huge sexual magnetism BUT THEY DO NOT ROUTINELY GIVE IN TO THOSE DESIRES and they never make that desire the goal. They don’t go out on Friday nights looking for some action. They don’t have to, this kind of behavior will bring women to them without any additional effort.
Let me tell you about how I started making money. For years I used to dream and devise money making plans but they failed 100% of the time. I used to think to myself (before I ever read Think and Grow Rich) that guys like Bill Gates, in order for them to make fortunes, had to give up sex and the pursuit of sex in order to make money. I instinctively knew that but I would think to myself “that’s not worth it“. And because I was unwilling to give up that all consuming desire and redirect that energy I never did anything worthwhile. Not until I had a girlfriend that I lived with and I consciously focused ALL that sexual energy into money making energy that I started to make money on my own. At the time I had a full-time professional job. I had a business plan and desire and I quit my job. 30 days later I made twice my old job’s monthly salary with my new business. And I only did it because I focused my sexual energy into something highly productive. It worked and it’s the only thing that works.
CONCLUSION
Transmutation of sexual energy is the process of turning sexual energy and aggression into fuel for something bigger. Sex is the number one reason we, as men, do anything. It’s always for sex. It is our biology, our DNA. There is nothing wrong with that. But if we want to accomplish something grand, something great, we have to transform our sexual energy into fuel for something else.
- Don’t indiscriminately have sex. That’s what savages do and that’s why they will stay savage. This doesn’t mean you can’t have sex but do not make sex your primary goal.
- Don’t masturbate or watch internet porn frequently. This drains vital energy from you. You can see vast, positive changes in mood, personality and happiness by giving this up. Keeping your seed develops an animal magnetism that draws people to you, constantly spilling that seed repulses people.
- Consciously use your sexual desire and energy and focus it into your business and life plan. Sexual energy is damn near limitless and when re-directed can turn any man into a money making machine.
- Get a good woman who will take care of all your needs (not just sexual) – this will free your mind from having to even think about these things and you can focus completely on your goal at hand. The love and support of a woman is essential for success – most successful men had a good woman behind the scenes.
Sexual energy is the best fuel that exists – use it wisely. Save it up and watch your energy explode (heh).
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It’s true…another important aspect of success. Great post!
Yes, this post is great. I just bought the book “Think and grow rich.” I noticed it has a lot of references in this website.
I especially like this comment Victor makes: “Don’t masturbate or watch internet porn frequently. This drains vital energy from you. You can see vast, positive changes in mood, personality and happiness by giving this up. Keeping your seed develops an animal magnetism that draws people to you, constantly spilling that seed repulses people.”
I think that is very true. Sometimes a man can get caught up in porn use and the mind can use it as a crutch. The mind can use pornography like a person would use a drug. If people need help with quitting porn please take a look at this website: http://www.rampout.com soon to be http://www.AdiosPorn.com
Thanks for the post.
How many times a week is optimal for sex, in your opinion, if your aim is to harness sexual energy?
depends on the individual. experiment and see what is best.
The only savage that exists is the white man :)
uh huh.
Im black. I grew up in the ghetto. Even though Ill never go back, Im proud of where I come from. And the shit that Vic is talkin about I been doing for years. I grew up on welfare and now Im an Engineer for one of the most respected firms in the country, because of sex transmutation. Everyone should go out and buy “Think and Grow Rich in a minute”, get the audio tapes if you’re too lazy to read or dont have time. It cuts out the fat of the book and gets straight to the point. I own my own business as well but the only reason I still work is because of the extra income, plus its easy to me and I love what I do, all because of sex transmutation. I tried to explain this to my friends and I was over their head. Needless to say theyre not my friends anymore. Stop fuckin with 5 for lifers, in other words, they’ll be making 5 digits a yr for the rest of their life. Vic can make all the white man references in the world and it doesn’t phase me 1 bit. All I take from this post is the message. Blacks gotta stop using racism as an excuse and start looking in the mirror. I work with racist people everyday, I smile, speak loud and clear and walk tall because Im the fucking man. I look them in the eye and communicate through vibrations. Here’s what I say: 1. Im smarter than you. 2. Ill fuck you up. 3. You will address me with respect. Trust me, they get the message, and Im well repected. What is understood does not have to be said. Some of these guys I’m now good friends with and they ask me for advice all the time. You have to learn how to be unstoppable, that goes for any man who faces racial barriers, regardless of skin color or culture. I didnt take offense to this post at all, keep up the good work Vic
Couldn’t agree more.
:) we know who’s who lol. This guy tips but I’ve noticed quite a few white supremacist statements (you mad bro?) that’s why I’ll be damned if I buy a book from him. And to the Victor it’s not like you can’t find this type of advice else where on the Internet, so humble yourself. If you want to sell books about working out and how to work for yourself, great! Do that and leave out the white supremacy and religious garbage, you’ll sell to a broader audience without backlash or ridicule.
My friend B, the whole reason he has a solid readership base is BECAUSE of his lack of being politically correct. If you want PC go to ur TV bro.
Fact CANNOT be ignored in an attempt to appease those in need of appeasment.
FACT: Before Europeans arrived, America was not as developed as it later became because of white influence. It doesn’t matter what commonly held opinions regarding the crimes of the settlers were. FACT is a FACT.
[I am a man from India, my country was also conquered by the white man at one time, but that does NOT mean I should turn my face from clear FACTS that they had better systems.]
nice nice mr. internet advice.
victor seems to do fine without you ;)
So true. Whenever I’m in a relationship with a good woman I am no ruled by my sexual urges and always find myself calm and productive
Thats a good read, brah! I’ve been whackin’ it for too long! 1-5 times a day for the last 10-15 years. I’m at 0 today and i’m going for the gold! I’ve thought about this for awhile and wondered if it would change me into the person I want to be. I’m always tired and no drive to even wash and detail my car. Id rather watch porn and.. ya know. Today is the first day that I will be improving myself. “They” say nothing is wrong with whackin’ too much. But I’ve read a lot on both sides of the fence for the physical and mental side of it and I’m giving it up as long as I can to see if I notice any difference. I think it’ll help in the bedroom too, hopefully. I need to last longer and more drive! BOOOOOYAKA
think and grow rich along with the male deer exercise have helped me a lot especially with the magnetism.
I agree with most of this… except the idea that “civilization exists solely because of monogamy”.
There’s a decent case to be made that monogamy is not our natural state, and nor is it the bedrock of civilization. I don’t know if you’re religious, but a large reason why monogamy is so widespread is the collective belief in religions like Christianity. I personally believe that marriage is an institution that we created, and that it’s not the most effective way to run relationships.
If you’re interested in learning more, check out a book called Sex At Dawn (link: http://www.amazon.com/Sex-Dawn-Stray-Modern-Relationships/dp/0061707813/). It’s a helluva good read and presents an alternative perspective to yours.
John,
That book sounds like hippie baloney where the authors try and challenge the accepted norm or the patriarchy or they want to provide a “total paradigm shift” to our traditional way of thinking. Fart. Hippies will stop at nothing to destroy civilization, and that means destroying marriage and christianity.
Haha… well, if you’re gonna be like that…
I’ve been enjoying your posts, but you’d be wrong to discount a new idea just because it doesn’t jibe with your current mindset. You’re all about being a man, so why not read it and make your own mind up, rather than reacting from an emotional (ie. feminine) point?
nah. You’re a copy guy, if you have some reco’s for great copywriting books I will take those seriously.
Not sure where your comment about copywriting books went. Info here: http://www.thegaryhalbertletter.com/Newsletters/zfkj_hands_on_experience.htm
Anyway, if you discount new ideas as fast as the one I suggested, you’re not the dude I thought you were. Nothing wrong with that. I grew up in a highly religious family, would have ended up as a pastor if I stayed in the scene, but I bailed, and to this day, I see it as one of the best things I’ve done. That’s just what worked for me. One of the biggest catalysts for positive change in my own life has been books that present ideas that I don’t necessarily agree with. Trust me. This shit expands your mind, even if you remain unconvinced after reading.
I appreciate the link for the copy page.
John the ideas of the book are not new, it´s just the fact that nowhere have been effective to build something beyond grasshuts. The main problem is that females are born roughly at the same number as males and beyond that there are chemical realities of pair bonding that. Our civilization wouldn´t count as an example of a successfull non-monogamous society because we are basically living on borrowed time due to the accomplishments of our great-grandfathers but even today stagnation is becoming a problem http://www.cientifica.com/emerging-technologies-in-colombia/
It is hippy bullshit.
The guy who wrote it is a mendacious idiot.
Everything in his book that is true isn’t new and everything in his book that is new isn’t true. No one in the field of evolutionary science has taken his ideas seriously.
Here are some critiques of the book.
http://www.epjournal.net/wp-content/uploads/EP10611616.pdf
http://www.epjournal.net/wp-content/uploads/EP09325335.pdf
And here is an entire book that was written pointing out Sex at Dawn’s numerous fallacies and outright lies.
http://www.amazon.com/Sex-Dusk-Lifting-Shiny-Wrapping/dp/1477697284
But all you really need to know about this book is that it is popular amongst the liberal-effete-antimasculine-procuckoldry crowd and that in itself discredits it (as this whole website is a testament to the discrediting of that crowd’s ideology).
Being born In south america, I was told many stories from history teachers about the tribes that lived in this part of the globe, they agree to tell that native soldiers were strong but leaders’s overindulgence on sex was a factor to be considered (being worried more about pleasure than their responsilities= ; meanwhile, the Spanish were physically and mentally stronger. it is said that Hernan Cortez and Pizarro did a lot of exercise, climbing, fencing and others duties day by day. It happened in China too, the emperors of certain dynasties just wasted themselves having too much sex and wasting their seed, leaving them with tired brains to take important decisions.
responsibilities#
I really enjoyed reading this article, however do the same rules apply for women? I apologize if someone has asked that before, I just didn’t have time to read through every comment and I am genuinely interested.
No.
There’s alot off babies being popped out in the trailer parks too.
Part true part BS. I know plenty of people who get laid all the time and are very successful
Lets see how long that last.
I came in here eager to learn, and half way reading this. I closemindly exited because I felt you were talking about becoming abstaint, but as I exited out and stopped myself, I realized I just exited oyt because yoy said something I disagreed with , and I thought, how close minded pf me to closemindedly leavr because of what yoy said, and I decided I would go and finish reading it.
as I finished purusing yoyr article, you gave me a thougjt that made me feel hope, i felt hope because I thought “hey, maybe if I decided to get a mentality of ‘if I dont do this, i wont get laid’ ” like baiting myself to work harder. If my mindset works, ill come back later to report my success.
Many thanks, Logan
Hey Victor,
Thanks for the great posts, you are a fatherly influence to many of us young men out there! I recently found out about this site, and I have been catching up with every single one since the start of the blog and I have a question for you regarding marriage/picking the right wife/harnessing sexual energy for a young man.
I am 20 years old virgin and still in a school for engineering but am working on some entrepreneurial projects. I never really talked to girls but I think that I should start sometime soon and shift my focus from just work. The only sexual gratification I get is from masturbation (going to stop, but should I replace it with real sex?)
According to your blog post on picking the right wife, you mention that at age 30 you begin to think about getting married. You also mention in multiple blog posts at from 20-30 are the wild years, but you suggested not going for one night stands/empty sex. You also mention about harnessing your sexual energy but how having frequent sex allows you to have increased testosterone. What would be your advice to a young male at around age 20? Should we go out and try and attract women to be girlfriends knowing that we will not eventually marry them? Or should we just focus on our projects for work/school and spend time later on attracting women? It seems like it requires a bit of time, effort and focus that could otherwise be used for more productive thing. If my concern is worthy, do you think you could elaborate on your post on harnessing your sexual energy and the balance with maintaining high testosterone? And balance between work and attracting women (talking, dates, etc.) Thanks again for all the knowledge so far, your posts on getting things done enabled to kick ass lately, this is just stuck in my head and eating me away mentally.
Jade, I have to digest your question and get back with you.
Thanks Victor it was quite winded. When you get a chance, in short my question is for a young 20 year old guy, in terms of interacting with women would you suggest:
a) Focus on projects/work and worry about women later in life (how should I harness sexual energy without masturbation/ losing T then?)
b) Go out and try and seek a girlfriend who is possibly wife material in the future and harness sexual energy that way
c) Enjoy my “wild years” and get with lots of women for a little bit then settle down like many guys do (obviously not the Spartan and bold&determined thing to do)
d) Something else?
Thanks again for having such a kickass site!
I think you just came him ‘food for thought’ for another upcoming kick-ass post! No matter how long it takes… would be worth it.
typo.. not ‘came him’… ‘gave him’
I am thinking along these lines as well. Im in my late 20′s. I worked on my idea all day, had a killer workout, ate well. Its 8 pm now, I barely watch tv or movies and I dont have any friends, and porn doesnt cut it. I haven’t been laid in 2 years and have a high sex drive. The frustration drives me insane, should I not be going out to the bar? What am I supposed to do with myself?
No man, sex is necessary as far as I’m concerned but the sex obsession will kill your business goals. Kick ass during the day and then slay some ass at night, 2 years is too long.
And so i too have quit masturbation 3 weeks ago and yes i am more attractive to women and the feelings between me and the women are more of love and warmth than perverted desires as previous with watchin porn and wanking. Early days and so far so good.